B-I-L is a stupid git!

Ok, so he was told to call. I know my husband told him he should call. So it was setup to talk on Skype last night. What does he do? He doesn't call! He makes my husband call! My husband types "please call". He says my husband told him that we would call when we were ready! So already he screws that up! He just won't call! So he wins, my husband called.

Then he refused to apologize for hanging up on me. He says my use of profanity was offending him and he told me three times he had to end the conversation and just hung up. I told him several times to apologize and he refused. He is such an asshole. I can't believe he was allowed to procreate.

He is such a moron who just can't be trusted. His story constantly changes, and all I hear is "that's not what I meant". Rather than the truth. He tried to tell us several times last night that we heard wrong and they had said what they meant and told us several times and never got through to anyone. Like they weren't "pushy" enough. I think they had these conversations between themselves and thought by osmosis that we would magically know what they were thinking. I know he's lying; the rest of the family didn't hear what they claim they said either. But he couldn't tell me that. He had to tell me I was the one who was wrong.

He had to tell me I was the one who didn't make amends with them. Like listening to their BS and then giving them hugs isn't good enough? Well fuck him! He had to turn it around to make it my fault. He's such a dick head.

Ok, so it never dawned on him that he hadn't heard from us, that we were the only ones that didn't kiss his ass and make up with him, and he couldn't be bothered to call and find out why? Coward! Fuck him and the high horse his sorry ass is still on! He's a jerk!!!

God forbid anyone use the words "I think" and his son's name in the same sentence. You will get a nasty call from him saying that you are undermining his wife's parenting skills and they know what's best for him and you do not!! Ok, here's what really happened: first time grandmother just wanted to hold the baby!!! That's right folks. He chewed out his own mother for saying "I think he's getting fussy and done with dinner. Come to grandma's arms!" Yep, first time grandma just wanted to hold the baby.

Then, they consult a religious book that says they shouldn't throw their child a first birthday party because it will overwhelm him to be the center of attention! So they "struggled" with whether or not to throw him a party.

We weren't invited to birthday #2. His excuse was that it was our anniversary weekend and he was not going to call. So that will be his excuse every year. He's a lousy excuse for a human being ever since he became a father. No one is good enough for his children. Yes, he now has two boys. God help us all.

I hate him. If I wasn't married to his brother it wouldn't bother me at all not to see them again. They caused way too many problems and don't deserve what they've been given. They were offended at our gift of a savings bond. And then he tells me they're not good with words. Well duh, obviously. The letter he wrote last year is full of shit. Told us all that they told us these things, and no one remembers. All in their heads!

They're lousy people. Christians at that. Though they claim to be. Doesn't bother him that they weren't invited to things going on at my house, but then why did he bring it up? He's just hurting his brother by not inviting us, not me. But he doesn't care. He doesn't care who he hurts. He just defends his family. What a crock of shit. He's a lying bastard!